Quick answer: The easiest way to match father and son at a wedding is to wear the same bow tie and suspenders in adult and kids sizes, with similar shirts and pants. For a more formal look, the groom and groomsmen can wear neckties while the boys wear matching bow ties in the same color or fabric.
Why father and son matching outfits are so popular
- They make standout photos. Matching colors tie the groom, groomsmen, ring bearer and page boys together in every shot.
- They make kids feel included. Little boys love dressing "just like Dad."
- They're easy to coordinate. One color decision covers the whole wedding party.
3 ways to match father and son
1. Identical bow tie and suspenders (most popular)
Dad and son wear the exact same set, just in different sizes. This is the simplest option and works for rustic, garden, barn and casual weddings. Our bow tie and suspender sets come in newborn to adult sizes, so everyone can match.
2. Necktie for dad, bow tie for the boys
For a slightly dressier look, the groom and groomsmen wear neckties while the ring bearer and page boys wear a matching bow tie in the same color. Add a matching pocket square for the adults to pull it together.
3. Same color, different pieces
Dad wears a suit with a colored tie; the boys wear bow ties and suspenders in the same shade. This works well when the adults are in rented suits and the kids need something more comfortable.
How do you coordinate the whole wedding party?
| Role | Suggested look |
|---|---|
| Groom | Suit, necktie or bow tie in the wedding color, lapel pin or boutonnière that stands out |
| Groomsmen | Matching bow ties or neckties, suspenders or vests, matching pocket squares |
| Ring bearer & page boys | Bow tie and suspenders set in the same color, dress shoes |
| Fathers of the couple | Tie or pocket square in the wedding color to link them to the party |
Which colors work best for father and son matching?
- Navy: classic, works in every season and with any suit
- Dusty blue: soft and romantic for spring and summer
- Burgundy or wine: rich and elegant for fall and winter
- Sage or hunter green: great for garden and outdoor weddings
- Blush and dusty rose: pairs beautifully with pink bridesmaid dresses
For more color pairings, see Should bow ties and suspenders match?
Sizing tips for matching sets
Order everyone's sets at the same time so the fabric and color come from the same batch. Measure each person's suspender length (see the size chart on each product) and choose the bow tie strap size by neck size or age. If you're unsure about a size, send us a message before ordering.
Frequently asked questions
Should the ring bearer match the groom or the groomsmen?
Either works. Most couples match the ring bearer to the groomsmen so he blends in with the wedding party, and give the groom a slightly different accent, like a unique boutonnière.
Do you sell matching sets in adult sizes?
Yes. Our bow tie and suspender sets come in sizes from newborn to adult, so dads, grandpas, groomsmen and little ones can all wear the same look.
Is there a discount for buying several matching sets?
Yes. Buy 3 or more sets and save 10%, or 5 or more and save 15%. The discount is applied automatically at checkout.
How early should we order matching wedding party outfits?
Order 4–6 weeks before the wedding to leave time for try-ons. If your date is close, a rush order option is available at checkout.
Shop matching looks: Bow tie & suspender sets · Neckties · Pocket squares
